Ask the Child Psychologist Forum

Sat. 10/24/09 05:44 AM

outta control kids

ive have a 8,9,12, and 16 yr old. i try having them get along but most times it hard. the boy arue with the girls and like wise. we cant have desent meel wit out the 8 yr old throw in fod at the 9. i need hep? wat do ido?

low d, rockwood, michigan

In situations like these, sometimes a family meeting can help in which everyone can create some family rules for mealtime. Consequences for both positive and negative behavior can be discussed. Time out's might be necessary or losing the right to eat with the family for the meal if the behavior continues.

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