Ask the Child Psychologist Forum

Wed. 10/07/09 12:46 AM

Domestic Violence

My ex-husband recently assaulted me. My 3-year old was present but I don't think he saw the physical violence but I know he heard all the yelling. The police were called and my son did see them and all their vehicles but he did not see them take his dad away.

What are some things I can do to help my son deal with this? Also, now he will not see his father for several weeks because of a court order. I have no idea how to explain why his dad is not going to be around for a while.

anonyms, Detroit, MI

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